The thing is, if a man wants to be with you, he will do whatever it takes to have you. If he isn't expressing any kind of interest in youthen he probably is only interested in hooking up. Does he make you feel like you could chase your dreams if you really tried? If it's 10 degrees out and it takes a solid minute walk to your place, he'll make that sacrifice and walk through the cold. And I don't think our story is unique either.
In fact, I'd say there was about three months of ambiguous undefined "Wtf is this" territory before we even discussed becoming exclusive.
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He is making a place for you in his life. Maybe you started out as friends, or met through mutual friends, which made you comfortable hooking up right away. They were with someone they loved or at least liked and made a choice. I eventually began to realize that it's emotionally impossible for me to hook up with a guy while sober and the reason I wanted to have sex with him was because I was into him. Jump to the comments.