As recommended via podcast a podcast from the pros at Pleasure Mechanicstry stimulating or asking for partner to stimulate your whole body first, starting from your legs and working inward toward your clitoris. If you remove all the hype around orgasm, you create an environment that facilitates relaxation and enjoyment. Some women report that they get more aroused from giving oral sex, than from any other kind of foreplay activity. The 4 Stages of Pickup and Seduction Development. By not touching her clitoris, but touching everywhere else important, you create a vacuum of sensation that makes her long for your touch there more and more and more. Many people would believe that for oral to be good, it would have to have the inevitable "grand finale," but this is not true.
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For women, cunnilingus is the equivalent of a blowjob for men. This is especially helpful with a new partner. Stay down there as long as it takes. Use the clitoral hood. Neither one of you can read each other's mind during sex, so speak up if there's something that you want that he's not delivering. Options like the Womanizerwhich utilizes suction, or the Ora 2which has moving beads to mimic the motion of a tongue, are excellent substitutes.